When do couples typically start bickering in a relationship?

July 5, 2025

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Timeline: Typically begins 6 months to 2 years in, after honeymoon phase ends and minor annoyances surface.

Common triggers: Moving in together, having children, work stress, financial pressure.

Key insight: Bickering is normal—it's how partners express unmet needs or frustrations.

Success factor: Couples who address underlying issues during bickering phases build stronger relationships.

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